A Life-changing Calling: What it Means to be a Pastor

If we had the opportunity to see what a pastor’s life looks like on a daily basis, it’s fair to say that no two days would quite look the same.

Every October during Pastor Appreciation Month, there are countless articles and lists shared that tell us how to share our gratitude to our spiritual leaders. But what if this were our posture year-round?

Saying thank you to the people who lead our churches, care for our families, preach the gospel and walk with us through some of life’s hardest moments may seem simple and unimportant to us, but could be an incredible encouragement to our leaders.

This fall, we talked with four pastors serving very different churches in Lake County, and their stories offered a glimpse into what pastoral ministry really looks like. The churches and the challenges they face are different. Even their paths to full-time ministry were different.

But one thing came through clearly: for each of them, pastoring is more than a job. It’s a calling.

A Calling They Couldn’t Ignore

Pastor Juan Carlos Brito of Nueva Vida in Zion traces his passion for ministry back to June 1998, when he made a faith commitment in Mexico City.

From then on, he felt a growing desire to tell people about Jesus and see them come to know God. The call to establish a new church began taking shape years later and in 2024, Juan Carlos and his wife sensed that God was confirming that calling.

They started small.

In June 2024, they gathered 15 people at a park near Wadsworth and Delaney to share the vision for Nueva Vida in Zion. Their first worship service was held at the park the next month.

By late August, Lakeview Church offered them space in one of its campus buildings. Then, just as quickly, the future of that building became uncertain.

Lakeview’s leadership determined they may need to sell the property, leaving Nueva Vida in search of a new location by the end of the year. Soon after that conversation, Lakeview’s governing board felt compelled to donate the entire property to Nueva Vida.

The two congregations gathered for a joint worship service on the final Sunday of December 2024, when the donation was announced and Lakeview held its final service on the property.

For Juan Carlos, the story is a reminder of something he has come to trust deeply: “The providence of Jesus is never late; it is always perfectly on time.”

“The providence of Jesus is never late; it is always perfectly on time."

The gift of the property, however, also brought a new set of responsibilities. A church that had started in a park was suddenly responsible for an entire facility, along with the legal, administrative and maintenance work that came with it.

Juan Carlos described the transition as the church’s biggest challenge. His wife and leadership team have taken on significant responsibilities alongside him, and the church is working to build the organizational structure it needs to grow well and care for both its people and its new home.

For him, the calling has never been about having an easy road.

“Ministry is not a career; it is a divine calling carried deep within the heart.”

Pastoring Wasn’t Always the Plan

Juan Carlos isn’t the only pastor who found himself answering a call he couldn’t shake.

Jay English, co-lead pastor of Garden City Church (formerly Journey Church – Beach Park) with his wife, Sonia, grew up surrounded by pastors. He knew how hard the work could be, and for a long time, he wanted no part of it.

“I’m not going to tell you I was necessarily drawn to it. I think I ran away from it for the longest time,” he said.

Eventually, after making his own way and then reaching a point of full surrender, Jay told God he would do whatever He asked.

And the calling he’d been running from was still there.

When he finally said yes, he was almost 30.

“When I said yes to that … it’s been the best decision I’ve ever made,” Jay said.

Ryan Miller, senior pastor at Gurnee Community Church, took an entirely different route.

Ryan came to faith after being an atheist and eventually sensed God calling him into ministry. Instead of following that call right away, he built a successful home-remodeling business.

Years later, while driving to a client’s house and listening to a sermon about the lost sheep, he realized he couldn’t keep putting it off. He pulled over to the side of the road, overwhelmed by the sense that God was calling him to ministry. Eventually, he and his wife gave the business to their employees and he followed the call, attending seminary first and then moved on to pastoring.

Today, he can’t imagine doing anything else.

“Now I can’t imagine my life not being a pastor.”

Paul Fowler, executive pastor and Lake Forest campus pastor at Christ Church, grew into his ministry. He began serving as a youth pastor in the city, served in a role stewarding his church’s finances, and ultimately came to serve in his current role.

“I love getting to serve the people here, I love getting to be a campus pastor,” Paul said. “I can’t believe I was about to say no to this.”

Four different stories with a common thread, once each of these pastors leaned into the call, they couldn’t imagine walking away from it.

The Challenges People Don’t Always See

Pastoring looks different depending on the church.

For Jay and Sonia, one of their biggest challenges is also one of their greatest hopes: building a truly multicultural church.

Garden City Church began as a multi-site campus and became independent in 2026. As longtime community members and pastors of the church, Jay and Sonia have deep roots in the area. Recognizing the diversity found in Lake County, they strive for Garden City to reflect it across generations, ethnicities, and cultures.

“It’s not based on tradition, but… really based on loving Jesus, creating a safe place for people of every culture and having a great time while we do it.”

At Christ Church, Paul faces a different kind of challenge.

The church has four campuses, which means there is a constant balance between each campus’s unique identity and keeping everyone moving in the same direction.

“When you’re in a multi-site church… you have to have good alignment, and so sometimes it actually requires doing less,” he explained.

For Ryan, the challenge is woven into the nature of the role itself.

“It’s a hat that, once you put on, you can never actually take off.”

And for Juan Carlos, the unexpected challenge has been learning how to steward the remarkable provision God gave Nueva Vida.

The calling is a blessing. So is the responsibility that comes with it.

What Keeps Them Showing Up

Ask a pastor what keeps him up at night, and you’ll probably get a different answer than if you ask what keeps him showing up.

For Juan Carlos, much of the weight comes from caring for the spiritual lives of the families in his church while also managing the practical responsibilities of a growing congregation and property.

But when he looks around at the people who have been with Nueva Vida from the beginning, he is encouraged.

His wife has been a constant source of strength. So have the leaders who stood with them when there were only 15 people gathering in a park. Those same people are still serving, working and caring for the church today.

For Jay, the question is how to reach more people.

“What keeps me up at night is trying to figure out how to reach more people,” he said. He sees the church’s responsibility as doing everything it can to reach people with the gospel.

And then there are the moments when he walks into Garden City and sees people from different generations and backgrounds worshiping together.

“When I have people who walk in for the very first time…and they can’t stop crying, and they say that our church “feels like home”… I know it’s the presence of God.”

For Paul, one of the greatest joys is watching people move from simply attending church to actually becoming part of it.

He wants people to connect, serve and discover that they have a place in the life of the church. And when someone comes back and tells him they’re grateful they found that place, it reminds him why the work matters.

For Ryan, the answer comes down to one person.

“It’s worth the one.” Seeing one person encounter God’s grace and move from spiritual death to life makes the hard parts worth it. Then, he says, you keep going “despite all odds, to see another.”

"It's worth the one."

The Church and Love INC: A Real Partnership

That same desire to care for people extends beyond the walls of a church.

It’s one reason a relationship between churches and Love INC can be so meaningful. The strongest partnerships aren’t about finding somewhere to send people to volunteer. They’re about churches and Love INC working together to help people experience practical care, connection and lasting change.

Paul sees Love INC as part of Christ Church’s effort to help people find meaningful, ongoing ways to serve.

The church has brought on a part-time serving director to help connect people with places where they can serve regularly. Love INC is one of those partners.

But Paul was clear that the goal isn’t simply to fill volunteer slots.

“It’s not just a bunch of volunteers checking a box, it’s a community of people saying, we’re passionate about Love INC, and we serve there once a month.”

Jay sees the partnership from another angle.

Garden City Church isn’t only looking for ways for its congregation to serve through Love INC. The church is also looking to Love INC for ways to better care for people who are already part of the congregation.

“We’re partnering with Love INC on, ‘how do we help the people in our congregation that need support get it?’ New Hope Ministry and their foundational life skills courses have made such a difference for our congregation.”

That’s what partnership can look like.

A church brings its people, relationships and desire to serve. Love INC brings relationships, resources and practical ways to address needs. Sometimes that means serving together. Sometimes it means connecting someone to a resource. Sometimes it means walking alongside a family through a difficult season.

The goal is the same: to help people experience the love of Christ in ways that reach beyond Sunday morning.

How to (Really) Bless Your Pastor

We asked each pastor the same closing question: if someone in your congregation wanted to encourage you — this month and beyond — what would actually mean something?

What they shared may surprise you.

Show up and serve. “If you want to really appreciate your pastor, show up,” Ryan said. “Be there for the mission of the church. Be there to volunteer, to engage in the life of the church … your pastor’s going to continue down that road, alone or with you.”

Jay similar insights:

“Serve with us… don’t just come and receive it and say, this is wonderful, and then have a seat. Let’s pass that feeling along by doing for someone else what you feel we’ve done for you.”

Write a real thank-you note. Paul shared that a genuine thank you lets a pastor know the work matters. “A thank you note that says, ‘hey, I appreciate you as a pastor’ and then shares a personal story of how they’ve been impacted by our work is such a blessing.’

Ask how they’re really doing. Paul also pointed to something that goes beyond individual encouragement. Pastors need people around them who are willing to ask honest questions about how they’re doing and whether they have enough margin to keep going well.

“Are we taking care of you? Time-wise, how are you doing? Do you need a sabbatical?… to be able to turn it off for just a day sometimes would just be a blessing to some pastors.”

For Juan Carlos, that care extends to the people who carry the ministry alongside him. His wife is his partner in the calling, and his leadership team has been there from the beginning. He said one of the greatest gifts would be prayer for his wife’s health and strength, encouragement for the leaders who give so much, and a congregation that stays united and committed to caring for the property God entrusted to them.

And sometimes, he said, the simple things matter too: coffee, a handwritten note or a sincere hug.

Those are “God’s gentle caresses for a pastor’s heart.

A few more ways to keep this going, all year long:

Though this is Pastor Appreciation Month, it is clear that this calling doesn’t take time off. May we all recognize this and share our gratitude with our pastors throughout the year. Here are a few more resources:

More than gifts, we encourage you to support your pastor’s calling to share the good news of Jesus throughout Lake County. You can do this by helping your church reach your neighbors through a Love INC partnership. Connect with us here.